Why is it so tough to find dates when you and your buddy are both actual men? What’s holding you back? Are you good-looking guys with great outfits? The truth is that being gorgeous and trendy requires more than just genetics and clothing. Today I’ll reveal the final piece of the puzzle…
Let’s start with what real men never do!
Real men do not interrupt others.
Interrupting your partner is never a good idea, no matter how fantastic your idea is! I understand. It’s easy to get carried away in a conversation and yell out your contribution. You’re bustling with ideas and want to be a part of it.
But don’t go too far and be impolite by taking someone else’s time. Being a good listener looks good on anyone.
True Gentlemen Do Not Pick Their Nose.
Instead of picking your nose, blow it. Does that sound childish? I’m hoping so since it is. Yet, you’d be shocked at how many mature men I still find doing this.
You may believe you only do it when no one else is around. But you’d be shocked how many men do this without recognizing it.
Real men don’t let their neck hair grow uncontrollably.
Your barber will be able to gain a better perspective and assist you in keeping it short.
Shaving your beard and getting a haircut regularly are taken for granted. But that’s not all of your hair. If nothing is done, hair on the back of your neck may appear up the back of your shirt.
Consult with your barber. If they still need to, they should be pleased to trim it for you the next time you come in. It is then up to you to keep it running. Don’t allow things to spiral out of control.
Faithful Men remember to clean up after themselves.
Let’s be honest, gentlemen. Too many still stand on the toilet,’ shooting from the hip,’ and not cleaning up after themselves. If you make a mess, it is your obligation, not anyone else’s, to clean it up.
The same is true for the gym. Wipe up any sweat on your exercise bench at the end of a session. Following that, if you’re strong enough to put your plates on the bar, you’re strong enough to re-rack them.
In a nutshell, I want you to take responsibility for your actions. Leave places in better condition than you found them.
Real Guys Aren’t Scared To Speak Out.
The ability to express yourself freely is a desirable trait.
Do you want to make friends and be famous? It may appear that nodding your head and agreeing with everything people say is the finest thing to do. You’re frightened, to be honest because you’re afraid others won’t like you if they disagree with you.
From personal experience, this will backfire. Nobody enjoys a yes-man. People aren’t stupid; agreeing to everything makes you appear enigmatic because no one knows where you truly stand. It’s entertaining to have a back-and-forth conversation and to challenge each other.
“A guy without enemies is a man without character,” stated Hollywood actor Paul Newman. You’ll be more popular because people may not agree with you completely.
Genuine Guys Do Not Complain
Don’t be like this person! The inverse of being hesitant to express yourself is revealing every unpleasant idea that enters your mind. Another easy pitfall to slip into is that the human mind has evolved to be quite adept at finding problems to discuss.
The key is to learn to filter your thoughts and to be productive. It’s the difference between moaning about how chilly it is and volunteering to put up the heat.
Genuine Guys Do Not Spit
Is this your picture? This is a habit that some guys develop as a result of smoking or other factors. Finally, this is virtually generally detested, so if you’ve fallen into it, you should cease doing it.
I discuss how to break a harmful habit here. It’s not easy, but it must be done, and I guarantee you’ll feel better afterwards.
Genuine Gentlemen Clean Their Filthy Nails
This guy needs a nail brush. What else can you do if you already wash your hands? Specks of dirt will remain, some visible and some not. You can only get some things with your fingertips and running water; you need something specially designed. It will look and smell horrible.
Do you want your girlfriend to be aware of every time you stroke her cheek? I recommend picking up a nail brush, file, and scissors to properly tackle the dirt underneath your fingernails and around your cuticles. I prefer nail files and scissors, but experiment to discover what works best for you.
Decent men do not brag.
Probably his vehicle. Certainly not at an auto show.
It’s natural for people to feel proud of their accomplishments, but guys, especially if we’re being honest, can be guilty of taking it too far.
Being humble and modest can appeal to women often surrounded by braggers who strive to impress them. It also means you don’t let your lips write a check that your butt can’t cash at work.
Your manager will be far more impressed if you under-promise and over-deliver rather than the other way around.
Real Guys Keep Their Nose Hair Trimmed
Check to see if your mustache is coming out of your nose or your face. Another common myth is that you can shave your facial hair and ignore the apparent mustache growing out of your nose. This can be done with anything from scissors to tweezers. For speed and comfort, I highly recommend a battery-powered circle trimmer.
Tame the beast, gentlemen. That’s all there is to it.
- Let others speak without interrupting them.
- Instead of picking your nose, blow it.
- Trim the hair on your neck.
- Clean up after yourself. Be assertive and express your mind.
- Instead of moaning, be constructive.
- Do not spit.
- Maintain the cleanliness of your nails.
- Don’t brag – humility is a lovely appearance.
- Tame the hair on your nose.